The Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand

On Women and POWER

By Kelly Diels / September 22, 2023 / Comments Off on On Women and POWER

Let’s build more of it and use it wisely Nearly every woman I know who is focused on her creative work or career is in a mastermind. Nearly every person I know is actively trying to heal a cultural injury — diet culture, body image, asymmetrical relationships, self-doubt, perfectionism, scarcity, OPPRESSION — and that means…

Actually, I’m a Huge Fan of Gatekeeping

By Kelly Diels / September 11, 2023 / Comments Off on Actually, I’m a Huge Fan of Gatekeeping

This is an excerpt from my weekly email newsletter, The Sunday Love Letter. To get missives like this direct to your inbox, I invite you to sign up here. Back in 2016, when I started writing about The Female Lifestyle Empowerment Brand (I’m against it), a friend of mine who is a well-known DEI consultant…

FLEB Marketing Tactic #10 Testimonials as Triggers

By Kelly Diels / July 19, 2020 / Comments Off on FLEB Marketing Tactic #10 Testimonials as Triggers

Client testimonials are not an honest indicator of real outcomes for most people, and you don’t need these unjust social triggers to hit your income goals.

FLEB Marketing Tactic #9 Social Triggers = Social Conditions

By Kelly Diels / July 18, 2020 / Comments Off on FLEB Marketing Tactic #9 Social Triggers = Social Conditions

Using social triggers as sales devices without evaluating potential impact = leveraging injustice to create profit.

FLEB Marketing Tactic #8 Safe Status Quo Imagery

By Kelly Diels / July 17, 2020 / Comments Off on FLEB Marketing Tactic #8 Safe Status Quo Imagery

Using imagery that aligns with unjust social roles & expectations because they are easy to consume manufactures (fake) authority and reinforces privilege.

FLEB Marketing Tactic #7 Re-enforces Gender Binary & Patriarchy

By Kelly Diels / July 16, 2020 / Comments Off on FLEB Marketing Tactic #7 Re-enforces Gender Binary & Patriarchy

Branding that reinforces the divine feminine/divine masculine gender binary isn’t “empowering”. It’s patriarchy, gender erasure, and it’s violent.

FLEB Marketing Tactic #6 Relentless Positivity and Conflict Avoidance

By Kelly Diels / July 15, 2020 / Comments Off on FLEB Marketing Tactic #6 Relentless Positivity and Conflict Avoidance

Social media profiles & FB groups that promote relentless positivity & conflict avoidance as marketing tactics reinforce unjust social norms.

FLEB Marketing Tactic #5 Weaponized White Femininity

By Kelly Diels / July 14, 2020 / Comments Off on FLEB Marketing Tactic #5 Weaponized White Femininity

Leveraging white supremacist beauty norms to create relationship, reputation, reach and revenue is weaponinizing white femininity for profit.

FLEB Marketing Tactic #4 Predatory Payment Plans

By Kelly Diels / July 13, 2020 / Comments Off on FLEB Marketing Tactic #4 Predatory Payment Plans

There’s nothing empowering about a 30% finance fee for the people least able to afford your rates.⁠ Predatory payment plans are financial injustice.⁠⠀

FLEB Marketing Tactic #3 Male Approval

By Kelly Diels / July 12, 2020 / Comments Off on FLEB Marketing Tactic #3 Male Approval

Leveraging or displaying proximity to male power reinforces the patriarchal norm that only grants some women power & social approval.